They Accepted Your Disclosure. What Comes Next?
Someone said yes after you disclosed herpes, HIV or another STI. Here's how to keep dating them as a whole person, talk about sex and protection, and build a real relationship.
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Dating with an STI comes with its own set of questions — when to disclose, how to handle rejection, whether to mention your status in your profile. These articles are written for people who are actually living it. You'll find practical, stigma-free advice on everything from writing a first message that gets a response, to navigating the conversation every positive person dreads — and learning to own it with confidence. Whether you were recently diagnosed or have been dating positively for years, this is the honest, experience-based guidance most mainstream dating advice skips entirely. Browse the articles below or join MeetPositives free to connect with others who already get it.
Articles in Dating Advice
Diagnosed With Herpes in a Relationship? How to Tell Your Partner
Tested positive for herpes while in a relationship? Learn what the diagnosis can and can't tell you, what to say, how to answer "Did you cheat?", partner testing and how couples manage herpes together.
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Dating With HIV as a Straight Man: How to Start Again
Recently diagnosed with HIV and dating women? Learn when and how to tell a woman you're dating, what to say if she asks "Can I get it from you?", U=U, condoms, PrEP for partners, rejection and first-date safety.
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Should You Disclose Herpes or HIV on Hinge, Tinder or Bumble?
Should you mention herpes, HIV or another STI on Hinge, Tinder or Bumble? Compare bio, private note, chat and in-person disclosure, with copy-paste scripts, screenshot and privacy tips, and safety advice for meeting.
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Can a Hickey Cause a Stroke? Know the Facts and Warning Signs
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How to Date When One of You Has an STI and One Doesn't
Serodiscordant dating — where one partner has an STI and the other doesn't — is more common than most people realize. Here's how to build something real without letting the status gap define everything.
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How to Meet Someone's Family When You Have an STI
Meeting your partner's family is nerve-wracking for anyone. When you're living with an STI, it can feel like an entirely different level of pressure. Here's how to handle it with confidence.
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New Survey Finds Many Americans Downplay Their Sexual History When Dating
A new survey found that many Americans report significantly fewer sexual partners when speaking with romantic partners than they do anonymously. Experts say fear of judgment and social stigma may be influencing dating conversations.
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How to Get More Matches on MeetPositives
Struggling to get more matches on MeetPositives? You're not alone. Getting noticed on a niche dating site isn't just about showing up — it's about showing up the right way. In this guide, we break down 12 proven tips that actually work, from choosing the right first photo to sending first messages that get replies. Whether you're new to the platform or just ready to level up your profile, this playbook will help you make more meaningful connections with people who truly get it.
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